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Post by angelcharmz on Oct 31, 2009 5:25:41 GMT 8
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Post by angelcharmz on Oct 31, 2009 5:29:59 GMT 8
Twilight Sis,
Where can I get the strength to let go ?
It's no longer a secret that I'm on a very serious relationship for more than 5 years..
I believe that TRUST is very important in a relationship...Now that it's broken..It's hard to let go of someone you REALLY love:(..
Please help me where to get the strength to finally let go while you're in a DEEP pain
Should I really let go? Or give him another chance and consider the years we spent together?
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Post by angelcharmz on Oct 31, 2009 5:31:51 GMT 8
Should I fight in the name of Love..So i won't have regrets in the end?
Or should I let go ?
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Post by nicky911 on Oct 31, 2009 13:15:58 GMT 8
Twilight Sis,
Where can I get the strength to let go ?
It's no longer a secret that I'm on a very serious relationship for more than 5 years..
I believe that TRUST is very important in a relationship...Now that it's broken..It's hard to let go of someone you REALLY love:(..
Please help me where to get the strength to finally let go while you're in a DEEP pain
Should I really let go? Or give him another chance and consider the years we spent together? sis, pray to god for strength sis and iknow kayang kaya mo yan .. yes sis you should let go sis.
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Post by janel23 on Oct 31, 2009 20:27:44 GMT 8
Twilight Sis,
Where can I get the strength to let go ?
It's no longer a secret that I'm on a very serious relationship for more than 5 years..
I believe that TRUST is very important in a relationship...Now that it's broken..It's hard to let go of someone you REALLY love:(..
Please help me where to get the strength to finally let go while you're in a DEEP pain
Should I really let go? Or give him another chance and consider the years we spent together? i know bes, it's really hard, right now you think of him all the time, expect more pain bes..lalo pag totally di mo na kasama...You even dream of him . He's the first thought in your head when you wake and the last when you go to sleep. And this constant dwelling the more it confuses you. Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go. here's a quote bes. There's no use in weeping, Though we are condemned to part: There's such a thing as keeping, A remembrance in one's heart... Will pray for you bes...dito lang kaming mga twilight angels. Mag enjoy tayo bes sa HK.
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Post by nicky on Nov 1, 2009 14:07:02 GMT 8
Bhez dearie! I believe you deserve someone much better than him. The number of years you stayed consider should not be taken into consideration; it is the deep of love you have for each other, trust and respect that matter most in why you want to stay.
Is he worth fighting for? You're the only one who can answer that because each of one of us has different reasons why we are holding on to something. I am not sure if we share the same ideas. For me, the devil that I don’t know is better than the devil I know. At least if that devil would give me grief later on, it would be something new and unexpected *joke*
Please note bhez that whatever wrongdoing he is doing now, he will more likely do again in future and much worse. Your acceptance of that weakness would give him the license to do it again. I don’t believe on making people change because they will simply disappoint you. You need to assess whether you can accept that weakness before deciding in holding on.
Otherwise let him go. You’re a strong woman bhez and I know you can get over him if you decide to kick him out. We are here to provide you support and love, your twilight sisters and others angels who love you dearly.
By the way, here are the 5 stages of mourning, based on Kubler-Ross model. Why I chose mourning model? I consider the pain of letting go of an important relationship as grieving with a part of you feeling like dying *too emo? I know*. 1. Denial - "This can't be happening, not to me." 2. Anger - "Why me? It's not fair!"; "How can this happen to me?" 3. Bargaining – I don’t think this is applicable. You can create your own model bhez or customize it to your needs 4. Depression - "I'm so sad” 5. Acceptance - "It's going to be okay."
Lastly and most important of all, pray for guidance bhez and strength. With Him at the center of your life, you will be in good hands. Take care and love you muahhhhhhh
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Post by dyosal16 on Nov 2, 2009 5:58:44 GMT 8
sis kaya mo yan... pray to God na bigyan ka ng strength para makaya mo ito, I already said this and I will say it again. Hindi ka bibigyan ng ganyang pagsubok ng Diyos kung hindi mo kaya, draw strength sa Kanya at sa taong mahal mo. I am not in the position to tell you this kasi hindi ako ang nasa position and I can only give you my shoulder to cry on and my ears to listen but please make sure that after all this you will try and move on na.
You will always be in the prayers sis... dito lang kaming mga sisters mo if you need us.
we love you sis!
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Post by angelcharmz on Nov 4, 2009 6:13:09 GMT 8
mga twilight sis...sobrang overwhelming ang mga advices nyo...
it's good to know...na on your down moments you have all your twilight sisters to support you..
wahhhhhhh...i'm very lucky to have all of you....
i love you all mga sis...
thanks for giving me all the strength to stand up.....and to face all the challenges...
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Post by angelcharmz on Nov 4, 2009 9:31:58 GMT 8
Twilight Sis,
Where can I get the strength to let go ?
It's no longer a secret that I'm on a very serious relationship for more than 5 years..
I believe that TRUST is very important in a relationship...Now that it's broken..It's hard to let go of someone you REALLY love:(..
Please help me where to get the strength to finally let go while you're in a DEEP pain
Should I really let go? Or give him another chance and consider the years we spent together? sis, pray to god for strength sis and iknow kayang kaya mo yan .. yes sis you should let go sis. thank you sis ..this is one of thehardest decision i made...it's really hard to let go sis..you really have to think more than twice and see it's worth..
i'm just glad you guys are there to catch and support me.....in this trial...
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Post by angelcharmz on Nov 4, 2009 9:34:50 GMT 8
Twilight Sis,
Where can I get the strength to let go ?
It's no longer a secret that I'm on a very serious relationship for more than 5 years..
I believe that TRUST is very important in a relationship...Now that it's broken..It's hard to let go of someone you REALLY love:(..
Please help me where to get the strength to finally let go while you're in a DEEP pain
Should I really let go? Or give him another chance and consider the years we spent together? i know bes, it's really hard, right now you think of him all the time, expect more pain bes..lalo pag totally di mo na kasama...You even dream of him . He's the first thought in your head when you wake and the last when you go to sleep. And this constant dwelling the more it confuses you. Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go. here's a quote bes. There's no use in weeping, Though we are condemned to part: There's such a thing as keeping, A remembrance in one's heart... Will pray for you bes...dito lang kaming mga twilight angels. Mag enjoy tayo bes sa HK. uu bez..i'm really glad that there's HK that I can look forward to..wahhh..it's my first of everything..first time to travel ouside our country...and i'm very happy that i'm spending this first time with my bez and bhez...
thank you for making me feel that i'm not alone..it means a lot bez...
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Post by angelcharmz on Nov 4, 2009 9:40:21 GMT 8
Bhez dearie! I believe you deserve someone much better than him. The number of years you stayed consider should not be taken into consideration; it is the deep of love you have for each other, trust and respect that matter most in why you want to stay. Is he worth fighting for? You're the only one who can answer that because each of one of us has different reasons why we are holding on to something. I am not sure if we share the same ideas. For me, the devil that I don’t know is better than the devil I know. At least if that devil would give me grief later on, it would be something new and unexpected *joke* Please note bhez that whatever wrongdoing he is doing now, he will more likely do again in future and much worse. Your acceptance of that weakness would give him the license to do it again. I don’t believe on making people change because they will simply disappoint you. You need to assess whether you can accept that weakness before deciding in holding on. Otherwise let him go. You’re a strong woman bhez and I know you can get over him if you decide to kick him out. We are here to provide you support and love, your twilight sisters and others angels who love you dearly. By the way, here are the 5 stages of mourning, based on Kubler-Ross model. Why I chose mourning model? I consider the pain of letting go of an important relationship as grieving with a part of you feeling like dying *too emo? I know*. 1. Denial - "This can't be happening, not to me." 2. Anger - "Why me? It's not fair!"; "How can this happen to me?" 3. Bargaining – I don’t think this is applicable. You can create your own model bhez or customize it to your needs 4. Depression - "I'm so sad” 5. Acceptance - "It's going to be okay." Lastly and most important of all, pray for guidance bhez and strength. With Him at the center of your life, you will be in good hands. Take care and love you muahhhhhhh Bhez talagang may steps pa ha...
bhez, sensya na kung di ko nasasagot ang mga tawag hah..kaze lagi kong iniiwan ang cp ko at nagmumuni muni ..i'm really glag that all my twilight sis are there to help ad guide me...
super thank you bhez for lending me your ears to listen...kahit halos ako na lang palagi ang may issue... ;Dkelan kaya ako makakabawi..hehehehee
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Post by angelcharmz on Nov 4, 2009 9:43:14 GMT 8
sis kaya mo yan... pray to God na bigyan ka ng strength para makaya mo ito, I already said this and I will say it again. Hindi ka bibigyan ng ganyang pagsubok ng Diyos kung hindi mo kaya, draw strength sa Kanya at sa taong mahal mo. I am not in the position to tell you this kasi hindi ako ang nasa position and I can only give you my shoulder to cry on and my ears to listen but please make sure that after all this you will try and move on na.
You will always be in the prayers sis... dito lang kaming mga sisters mo if you need us.
we love you sis! sis lie, thank you for praying for me...ang lakas mo ata kay bro ah..hehehehe...nun isang araw..nakakita ako ng rainbow...naisip ko there's a rainbow after the rain...
pero happy pa din ako sis..kaze never ko na feel ang distance from you guys..you made me feel na lagi ko kaong kasama..and sobrang bless ako dun..
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Post by yham on Nov 4, 2009 12:54:54 GMT 8
Twilight Sis,
Where can I get the strength to let go ?
It's no longer a secret that I'm on a very serious relationship for more than 5 years..
I believe that TRUST is very important in a relationship...Now that it's broken..It's hard to let go of someone you REALLY love:(..
Please help me where to get the strength to finally let go while you're in a DEEP pain
Should I really let go? Or give him another chance and consider the years we spent together? mareng charmzzzzzzzz nakaka sad naman yan...matapos ang lahat lahat ng ginawa mo pagtanggol sa knya... sundin mo kung ano ang magpapaligaya sayo...kung saan ka happy support ka namin...be strong sis,kaya mo yan...pray ka lang na ma surpass mo ang trial...we're just here for you at pagpipray ka din namin... love you...
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Post by angelcharmz on Nov 4, 2009 20:13:54 GMT 8
Twilight Sis,
Where can I get the strength to let go ?
It's no longer a secret that I'm on a very serious relationship for more than 5 years..
I believe that TRUST is very important in a relationship...Now that it's broken..It's hard to let go of someone you REALLY love:(..
Please help me where to get the strength to finally let go while you're in a DEEP pain
Should I really let go? Or give him another chance and consider the years we spent together? mareng charmzzzzzzzz nakaka sad naman yan...matapos ang lahat lahat ng ginawa mo pagtanggol sa knya... sundin mo kung ano ang magpapaligaya sayo...kung saan ka happy support ka namin...be strong sis,kaya mo yan...pray ka lang na ma surpass mo ang trial...we're just here for you at pagpipray ka din namin... love you... wahhhhhh...mareng yham..super thanks...waaahhhhhhh...
eto talagang si bato bato..sarap tibagin eh...heheheh..[/color]
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Post by dyosal16 on Nov 5, 2009 1:06:25 GMT 8
sis kaya mo yan... pray to God na bigyan ka ng strength para makaya mo ito, I already said this and I will say it again. Hindi ka bibigyan ng ganyang pagsubok ng Diyos kung hindi mo kaya, draw strength sa Kanya at sa taong mahal mo. I am not in the position to tell you this kasi hindi ako ang nasa position and I can only give you my shoulder to cry on and my ears to listen but please make sure that after all this you will try and move on na.
You will always be in the prayers sis... dito lang kaming mga sisters mo if you need us.
we love you sis! sis lie, thank you for praying for me...ang lakas mo ata kay bro ah..hehehehe...nun isang araw..nakakita ako ng rainbow...naisip ko there's a rainbow after the rain...
pero happy pa din ako sis..kaze never ko na feel ang distance from you guys..you made me feel na lagi ko kaong kasama..and sobrang bless ako dun.. you're very welcome sis charmz! basta dito lang kami lagi for you!
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